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Whichever of you has never sinned...

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 3 minute read

I read John 8 today. Wow.

At dawn he appeared again in the temple courts, where all the people gathered around him, and he sat down to teach them. The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him.

But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground.

At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”

“No one, sir,” she said.

“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”

John 8:2-11 (NIV)

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Photocopy Jesus

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 2 minute read

It doesn’t matter where I go and in what complex situation I have found myself over the years and around the world…

  • hunger
  • conflict
  • poverty
  • sickness
  • brokenness
  • loneliness
  • death
  • need for resources
  • need for people
  • need for purpose
  • need for compassion & empathy
  • the absence of leadership
  • the need for wisdom
  • the need for humility
  • the need to know what to do and say

… the answer, in every single case, is the same.

Every single one of these (and any other need) is addressed when I become like Jesus. When I have one goal… and one purpose… and one mission… All else is taken care of. It may not be easy but life is really not complicated. To all that life presents as broken or need-ridden, there is nothing that is not addressed by people who take literally the mission to be like Jesus.

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Proof of our Faith

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 2 minute read

“… lead a life worthy of your calling. For you have been called by God. Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults, because of your love. Make every effort to make yourselves united in the Spirit…”

Ephesians 4:1–3

Think about every relationship you have for a minute.

Are you always humble and gentle? Do you make allowance for their faults? A pretty tall calling? Not my words. Being always humble and gentle is a life worthy of our calling. Let’s not make any excuses with talk of personality difference. The more like Jesus I am, the more patient I will be, making allowance for the faults of others.

Do I get easily pissy with people? Am I quick tempered? Am I always complaining about the weaknesses or mistakes of others? Do I feel constantly “let down” by others? Am I short with my family? Do I say things to make people look small (Just Joking!) so that I can look big? Do I project an image of prideful togetherness that you want as the standard for everyone?

If this describes me… or could be attributed to me… or defines my general countenance… what do I do with that in light of “always be humble and gentle… making allowance for each other’s faults”? If it does… I need some serious face time with Jesus until it doesn't.

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Beaten Up?

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 2 minute read

I really don’t like these two passages from 2 Corinthians. Yes I want the effect, but no I don’t want the cause.

“God is our Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. The more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ.”

2 Corinthians 1:3–5

So… the only way to experience the richness of comfort is to suffer?

“We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability to endure, and we thought we would never live through it. But as a result, we stopped relying on ourselves and learned to rely only on God, who raises the dead.”

2 Corinthians 1:8,9

So… the only way to stop relying on myself and learn to rely on a God (who raises the dead) is to be crushed and overwhelmed beyond my ability to endure? How much really do I want to experience and know Him?

There is obviously something miraculous and world changing that we have the opportunity to find at the end of ourselves. When our own strength ends, we find His. But the process of finding the end of ourselves is painful. It is often after times of great drought, that I look back and see they were times of incredible spiritual wealth.

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A preacher with a prostitute

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 1 minute read

God’s grace and love never reaches a human-like limit. The depth of His compassion is always deeper than my depravity. The expanse of His faithfulness always has more reach than my faithlessness. His patience with my failings far exceeds any understanding of love I can fathom.

Hosea’s message of a preacher with a prostitute explodes any semblance of religious propriety I have ever known. God instructs this preacher to marry a prostitute so that He could illustrate an unfathomable love and passion for His people. Hosea takes her as his wife, full-well knowing that she would break his heart… over and over again. And each time his love is rejected for a cheap substitute, the chase is on. Hosea determines to woo her back to what is eternal and real, only to have her leave again. What a painfully awe-inspiring illustration of unconditional love.

At the end of the book God lays out the point of His pain.

I will heal you of your faithlessness; my love will know no bounds, for my anger will be gone forever.

Hosea 14:4 (NLT)

I don’t understand why I am so worth His love; but I am compelled to live my life to show how much His love is worth.

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Big Babies

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 3 minute read

When it comes to the demonstration of extreme grace, kindness and understanding, “Christians” aren’t much better at it than the rest of the world. 

I absolutely love watching little kids. I love the look of wonder and amazement when they see the Christmas tree lights come on. I love the look of pride and accomplishment when they put two lego blocks together. I love the look of joy when they kick a soccer ball… in any direction. I love the look on their faces when they feel like they are priceless. I love the look of vulnerability and dependence when they instinctively need the care of a parent. I love watching their arms go up when they need to be held. I love the look of innocence when they think they might be in trouble. I love the look value on the face of a little kid that gets to play with the big kids. There is something about little kids that draw out the best in almost everyone.

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How God shows up

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 2 minute read

“I am the Vine, you are the branches. When you’re joined with me and I with you, the relation intimate and organic, the harvest is sure to be abundant. Separated, you can’t produce a thing. Anyone who separates from me is deadwood, gathered up and thrown on the bonfire. But if you make yourselves at home with me and my words are at home in you, you can be sure that whatever you ask will be listened to and acted upon. This is how my Father shows who he is—when you produce grapes, when you mature as my disciples.”

John 15:5-8 (Msg)

For those who have any desire to make an impact for the Kingdom while they are in this world, John 15 couldn’t be more paramount.

I have been to my share of conferences about how to be effective in ministry. I’ve read my share of books that propose how to grow organizations. I have attended my share of seminars and courses that talk about how to have an ever-increasing impact. All all of these have been valuable.

However, these four verses, if lived out, is what will cause us to have the greatest possible impact. 

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Anyway

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 1 minute read

I love the Paradoxical Commandments by Kent Keith:

  • People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered; forgive them anyway.
  • If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; be kind anyway.
  • If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; succeed anyway.
  • If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; be honest and frank anyway.
  • What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; build anyway.
  • If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; be happy anyway.
  • The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; do good anyway.
  • Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; give the world the best you've got anyway.
  • You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway.

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Know empathy, know leadership

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 3 minute read

Our effectiveness and impact as a leader is directly tied to our ability to experience empathy. Whether your leadership is in your home, your place of work, your church, your peers, or anywhere… you will only be able to inspire and influence to the degree that we can feel what other people feel. And while empathy comes easier to some than others, I am also convinced that empathy can be learned. But nothing is learned if it’s not valued.

Leadership without empathy is only a position on an organizational chart. And hierarchical influence is the worst type, but also the easiest to practice. “Because I said so” is terrible leadership. Empathy is relational leadership and your influence will grow to the degree of your shared feelings with someone.

The work “empathy” comes from two Greek words; “en” is translated “in” and “pathos” is translated “feeling or suffering”. What an awesome and powerful word picture! To practice empathy is to be in someone’s feelings or to be in someone’s suffering.

Empathy enables us to see something from someone else’s perspective, which gives us a common starting place to move forward. Empathy prevents judgments and self-centered stereotypes. Empathy stops us from assuming or projecting someone else’s motives. Empathy builds team momentum and direction. Empathy prevents the dangers from an “us and them” mentality. Empathy propels all of us toward generosity and service.

Being in someone’s feelings inspires other-centered actions and words. If empathy is harder for you than others, if emotion is often distant or irrelevant in your thought process, how can you grow empathy?

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The only hope for any change

Thoughts by Dave Blundell – 2 minute read

Everything would change if we completely understood we are absolutely loved. I mean everything. Imagine your life was lived each moment, knowing in every fibre of your being, that God is madly and endlessly in love with you? And then imagine you couldn’t help but live out an unconditional love that mirrors the very image of how God loves.

Imagine an unconditional love lived out in our marriages and families. How many families would still be whole?

Imagine an unconditional love lived out where we work. How much joy and success could we have as a team?

Imagine an unconditional love lived out where we live. It would become a community and not just row of homes.

Imagine an unconditional love lived out in our churches. We would become known as a force of love and compassion and not just an irrelevant self-absorbed religious institution.

Imagine an unconditional love lived out around the world. It would become a world without extreme poverty.

The only way to “get it”… the only way to increasingly become one who loves unconditionally is to increasingly spend time in the presence with the One who does. We can only love to the degree we’ve been loved. When I am experiencing the love of God then I don’t have to work at being patient. I don’t have to twist my arm to be giving. I don’t have to grit my teeth to show a bit of grace. I don’t have to force myself not to sin. I don’t have to make myself love. 

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