- The more you lead people, the less you will have to manage them.
- The more you influence people, the less you will have to try and control them.
- The more you inspire people, the less you will have to motivate them.
- The more you know what God thinks of you, the less you will care about what others do.
- The more you focus on relationship, the less you will have to focus on behavior.
- The more you collaborate with people, the less you will focus on securing agreement.
- The more you listen to people, the less you will have to talk.
- The more you can control your emotions, the less you will have to control people’s actions.
Most people focus on the lesser of these. It is easy to manage, control, motivate, focus on people’s opinions and behavior. But the more you focus on the greater of these, the more you will experience relationships God intended.
